I have 2 friends they are both single and one of them has only ever had one relationship in his entire life, he is of bengali upbringing, and in this culture they
1) cover up their women
2) men talk to the men mostly
This friend of mine has also enjoys the company of women , and is not really a strict bengali/muslim, you could say he is 'westernised'.
i.e. he enjoys the company of tall big breasted blonde women ( dont we all??)
However his skills are well below par the main issue he has is just going up approaching and talking to women.
Therefore I am going to cover this area here, meeting and talking to women is the first step to getting women into your life.
A bar , pub or social place is a good setting to start off with.
Since alcohol also helps the women loosen up and become more sociable to you.
The stuff in brackets is optional and the slashes show what the response may be
Walk into the pub and go upto any girl at the bar an say:
"Hey
would you know where club x is? I'm not from around here I am meant to be meeting a few of my friends,I'm kinda lost."
Girl: replies "yes its over there..../er umm / no"
At this point she may choose to ask you some stuff if she is interested like
"where you from" , "have a drink with us/me" etc. this is definite showing she interested. if you do not get this response do not worry you will improve with practise.
You: Ah that's great maybe ill see you in there later, come an say hi and we can catch a drink together (on me)
Make sure you repeat the same lines to plenty of women in the bar or pub this will get you accustomed to talking to women and just approaching women, it is also good practise. To other people in the bar it seems as though you know a lot of people and to the women they will automatically become more interested in you.
This is a good exercise to do if your not used to talking and approaching women cold.
Do not worry about finding other stuff to say as most women like to talk and their favourite subject is talking about themselves. So when you get started you may well find your the first guy that has approached that girl in a while and she becomes very receptive to you.
This happened to me on one occasion and this particular girl has made effort to keep in touch with me over time all from a brief encounter in a pub.
Friday, 4 July 2008
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