Mistletoe & Wine

Ahh isnt christmas great!
All that alcohol, parties and women!
Brings us men lots of opportunity to meet women that dress up and are hot on for us.

I hope my readers had a good one, Happy new year to you all.



Tiggy

Online Dating, Stats of the most visits...

Plentyoffish.com #1 Dating Site In North America And U.K.

Plentyoffish_logo PR NEWSWIRE -- July 28 -- The latest comScore Media Metrix numbers now rank the free dating site Plentyoffish.com as the leading dating site in both North America (U.S.A. + Canada) and the U.K.

Top 10 North American Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish 36,825
Singlesnet 29,896
eHarmony 19,269
Match.com 18,329
Yahoo!Personals 16,365
People Media Sites 12,340
TRUE.com 10,716
SparkNetworks 9,124
Mate1.com 4,847
Humor Rainbow, Inc 3,714
comScore Media Metrix. June, 2008, age 2+ universe

Top 10 U.K. Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish 8,052
Meetic 4,024
Match.com 2,724
Gaydar.co.uk 2,617
GirlsDateForFree 1,392
WhiteLabelDating.com 1,120
EasyDate 1,110
Smooch.com 1,102
QuickFlirt 1,054
LoopyLove 853
comScore Media Metrix. June, 2008, age 15+ universe

On Monday 14th July, the CEO and Founder Markus Frind opened up his 26th floor office in downtown Vancouver. Plentyoffish.com has hired its first six employees, the first six of a planned thirty person team that is being assembled to help roll out new advertising programs



Uniques is a GREAT metric. I also like visits because it shows that the unique visitors are actually active, as well. A site that does a lot of advertising will get a higher proportion of uniques and won't rank as well on visits if those users are bailing off the site quickly. Plentyoffish relies on word of mouth so will naturally get less uniques because of it. POF uniques numbers aren't propped up by advertising.

In short, both are good metrics. POF suffers under the uniques metric and is particularly strong on visits because members tend to stick around. They're not coming to the site from advertising so much as from word-of-mouth.

Here's the rankings by unique visitors for comparison.

UK - ooo's of uniques, June, 2008
POF - 704
Meetic - 666
EasyDate - 429
Match - 425
QuickFlirt - 424

North America - ooo's of uniques, June, 2008
Singlesnet - 3640
Match - 3373
Yahoo - 3333
TRUE - 3165
Plentyoffish - 2896

Does Meeting Women Depend on Location?

Yes it does,
Although many people say you can meet women anywhere and this is true to a extent.
There are places where your chances are greatly improved.

These are:

Holiday Locations in High Season
Common ones for europe include: Ibiza, Greek Islands, Cyprus, Majorca

Tourist Hot Spots at Central London

South Coast of England especially Brighton and Bournemouth

Newcastle

I would say you will find women looking and ready to meet you in these locations.

School of Seduction

For a period in my life I had problems with meeting girls.
It took a year or so of work, I looked for all resources I could find on the internet, amazon, asking people I know about things I can do to improve my chances of meeting women. Over time I learned a few things.
I read lots of stuff and questioned girls and girlfriends of friends what I could do to help improve my chances with hot women. It didn't really help much at all.
However there were a few good resources I stumbled on,
this will save you time wading through poor info if I list information that helped me.

Going out and talking to women - might sound obvious but if you can overcome your fear then this is the most productive thing you can do.
If you cant do this yet then the following resources will help
London School of Seduction (LSS) - A secret group of guys that help guys
The Layguide - by Tony Clink - All good seducers have a copy
Fastseduction.com - Other slightly aimed more for U.S. audience guys write 'field reports' of their experience picking up women , vitally useful
The Game - Neil Strauss - Story about guys picking up women (PUA's)
Gunwitch Direct Game method
David DeAngelo
Juggler
Manic High pickup guide
Steve Piccus (steve P)

Information that I either gave up using or didnt work (this info may still be useful to other people just not me)

Ross Jeffries speed seduction (with the exception of his unstoppable confidence audios - they are good)
Major Mark Cunningham
Dave M Insider Internet Dating

Shaping up with Fitness

The last post does what it says on the tin ie pack on muscle fast.
This post is about shaping and toning the body.
So how can we do that easily simply and effectively.

The main way is by Swimming, Swimming is one of the best all round exercises.
The benefits are endless.
By swimming you will shape your body into a natural and proportionate shape.
There will be slight emphasis on chest back and shoulders but this goes in line with
the classic V shape torso look.

The other area of fitness that is worth looking into is Weight training following a
disciplined plan this will be more difficult to implement but the results will be better.
I recommend to follow a proven plan that is already out there.
E.G Bill Phillips body for life
OR for the more advanced (drug assisted) something like the Arnold Level 1 workout programme (from his enclyclopedia of modern bodybuilding).

I will continue this in the future.

Do you want to pack on muscle fast? Here's how

There is one exercise that pushes the exertion levels of the human body to its limit,
this exercise is the squat, if you truly want to pack on loads of muscle fast then you
need to squat.

Start with 3 sets 12-20 reps once per a week , this should only take you 20 mins to do.

After a few weeks you should be able to have about 30 - 40 kg on the bar, your first aim is to complete the reps:

Set 1 12 - 20 reps
Set 2 12 - 20 reps
Set 3 12 - 20 reps

You will get more muscular and grow with just this one exercise!
Your appetite will increase to match the level of your increased metabolism
Your muscles will grow!

Detox Continued

For those of you that have read the early posts of my blog you may remember I mentioned detox, well the first detox was so tiresome that I never finished it, if anyone wonders what one I did it was Dr Natura Colonix, this was expensive the main benefits I got was a reduced stomach and clear skin (my skin was slight acne not much).

After a awful computer job sitting at desk all day and eating a lot of fried breakfasts drinking lot of black coffee and taking a lot of painkillers, antibiotics for various coughs colds etc I decided I was feeling really run-down and generally no energy, my doctor was even diagnosing me with asthma ( that although I had breathing problems I did not have asthma ever in my life) so I did another detox

I tried Natures Secret Ultimate Cleanse.
Reason I went for this one is you just take 6 tablets in morning and before bed Simple!
No brewing of Tea or mixing powders like the last one, lets face it most of us have busy lives and this one was ideal.
This is what happened:

Day 1 -- no feeling
Days 2- 5 -- Headache, runny nose, cough, runny eyes had to lie down all day every day

Days 5-7 -- Headache and coughing up green mucus / phlegm tiredness

Now these symptoms are the toxins being released from your body and any phlegm needs to be coughed up and not swallowed to expel from your body.

By day 7 I had to stop as I could not really carry on with day to day tasks too well.

I came off for 3 days then went back on.

The next few days were headaches and slight tiredness but mucus was clear.

I have not completed the whole course however some effect I have noticed are as follows:

1)Increased awareness of good and bad foods , eg burger king creates clear mucus in back of my throat, fresh salad does not
2) Flatter stomach
3) Weight loss of 4 kg over a 3 week period ( I was still exercising and started to eat more healthy on the detox)
4) More energy
5) Clearer skin
6) No hay fever symptoms
7) the asthmatic symptoms and breathing troubles went

Overall the detox itself can be difficult to do but the results are worth it.

So I recommend this product.

Summer and Meeting Women - LOTS of THEM part 1

I have 2 friends they are both single and one of them has only ever had one relationship in his entire life, he is of bengali upbringing, and in this culture they
1) cover up their women
2) men talk to the men mostly

This friend of mine has also enjoys the company of women , and is not really a strict bengali/muslim, you could say he is 'westernised'.
i.e. he enjoys the company of tall big breasted blonde women ( dont we all??)
However his skills are well below par the main issue he has is just going up approaching and talking to women.

Therefore I am going to cover this area here, meeting and talking to women is the first step to getting women into your life.

A bar , pub or social place is a good setting to start off with.
Since alcohol also helps the women loosen up and become more sociable to you.
The stuff in brackets is optional and the slashes show what the response may be

Walk into the pub and go upto any girl at the bar an say:

"Hey
would you know where club x is? I'm not from around here I am meant to be meeting a few of my friends,I'm kinda lost."

Girl: replies "yes its over there..../er umm / no"

At this point she may choose to ask you some stuff if she is interested like
"where you from" , "have a drink with us/me" etc. this is definite showing she interested. if you do not get this response do not worry you will improve with practise.

You: Ah that's great maybe ill see you in there later, come an say hi and we can catch a drink together (on me)

Make sure you repeat the same lines to plenty of women in the bar or pub this will get you accustomed to talking to women and just approaching women, it is also good practise. To other people in the bar it seems as though you know a lot of people and to the women they will automatically become more interested in you.

This is a good exercise to do if your not used to talking and approaching women cold.

Do not worry about finding other stuff to say as most women like to talk and their favourite subject is talking about themselves. So when you get started you may well find your the first guy that has approached that girl in a while and she becomes very receptive to you.

This happened to me on one occasion and this particular girl has made effort to keep in touch with me over time all from a brief encounter in a pub.

Mystery coming out in the open on youtube

Worth a look, as always what mystery says is pure gold.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muCUvxxVNsM&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7_vPgDkL1I&feature=related

A warning to you all

I do have a tendancy to scout around the web seeking out interesting stuff that may or may not help us all in the search of male improvement for fitness, dating and style.

Well Tucker Max is one of them, when you see the quality of his babes you know he is doing something right.

also a rather wierd, sublime , funny and interesting piece about Gay clubs (apparantly much easier to pick a girl up in according to Tucker ) and what every guy should know about laying hot stripper girls - a warning to us all!

http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/date/the_most_disturbing_conversation_ever.phtml#578

The Pick Up Artist

I saw this on VH1 other night, I couldnt really get into it much as way too many adverts.

However there was some really good stuff and I do recommend watching
google "the pickup artist" or search for it on youtube.

Here is a link that might help you see this.

http://www.youtube.com/user/SteveVai89

What to say on a first date?

This is a good question.
Does anyone of you wonder what your gonna say on a first date.

Maybe you should be wondering what your not gonna say.

Just think of the normal questions a girl asks on a first date, and if your lucky enough to go on lots of first dates then you will find that they often start asking the same questions, these are:

What do you do?
What did you get upto on the weekend?
How old are you?
Where do you live?
Do you live alone?
What music do you like?
Do you like coffee? ( if you get this one then its on :) )

(Side Note- these are remarks your gonna get from a girl when your on the date- please please please DO NOT EVER USE THESE on first approach on chatting/sarging a girl that first time, as she will switch off you faster than a blown lightbulb!)


The trick here is to keep the girl in suspense as long as possible if you can do this,
this triggers her curiousity and furthermore her attraction for you.

Women like a guy that is all a bit mysterious, I would say this,
master the art of small talk, that is talking loads about nothing.

In this game its all about body language and communication.

If you dont know what I mean but you would like to know more and your in London,

Then send me a £100 and I'll spend a hour or two with you briefing you on what I mean. Afterwords your 'first dates' with new women should be somewhat better.

Earning Cash for Lifestyle

Hi again guys, my third posting today I must be in kinda a creative mood.

I am now 30 yrs old and I earn good money, well I think its good compared to people around me,

30 yrs old £50,000 - 80,000 per year

Thing is I live on the outskirts of London,
London is blo*dy expensive place and it just aint enough.

To get a flat in anywhere half decent they cost around 500,000
living where its a fun place.

To go out for a good night out you need about £50-80
Go out with a girl easy spend £100

Now I am not winging as London is full of opportunity and there are people
that earn like 10k year and it must feel limiting.

I just feel to really make the most of whats there and available to have about 200k-300k year is what you would need to really enjoy it, now most guys that kind of money is out of the question.

However it has been known that there are some really wealthy women floating around london , these kind of women tend to be a little older 30-40 range and keen as a hungry rabbit for a guy to spend money on.

some of em are even in there 20's with inherited wealth.

To build up your social circle of hot women and wealthy ones would definately benefit you if your living in this expensive city.

Remember you need a little money (or a lot) to really make the most of whats on offer.

I dont recommend doing the banker style career of 80hr weeks, much better to to 30 hrs a week and earn 20k (instead of the 200k the banker gets - he has no life) have time to enjoy it.

Facebook

Has anyone noticed that facebook is now getting really popular?

I notice with girls that there is masses of them on facebook.

At work I see them on facebook

In the shopping malls I here them talking about facebook

At Home People call me up about facebook

In my inbox Im getting all these losers from school adding me on there facebook.
(and I dont even put a photo up there or add anyone!!)

The world is going facebook crazy!

Now I dunno about you but I feel kinda wierded out by all these people that hardly know me getting to view my circle of friends.

So I just dont go on there.

Maybe I should set up a fake facebook profile to see what all the fuss is about.
but then again isnt the whole fun thing about it being able to see who you know
(or rather didnt want to)

Kind I can imagine if your a player dude would be kind of a headache if all your mates are ex lovers (hot girls) they would soon realise what kinda guy you are hehe
unless you got nothing to hide. Hallaleuya!!

Horny Women online

Well There seems to plenty of those out there.

Has anyone ever noticed that when your not looking for some horny fun with girl that you end up getting ' offered ' some horny action?

I think I have the women online thing down to a T.

Now I can go online.
Message a few girls, with direct intentions.
Get them on msn messenger.
Chat for 1-8 hours
Arrange to meet up and have lots of sex.

Now I have bailed out the last few times.
Mainly because I got a Girlfriend now an I wanna
stay faithful.
The kind of girls that I have been getting are
seem pretty 'average' in the looks department.

One was a bored horny housewife as well.

Life is Funny :)